245. Parenting Help for Tweens: Homework, Screens, and Attitude—What to Do Tonight
If your tween turns simple requests into a debate—homework, screens, bedtime, chores—you’re not alone. In this episode, you’ll get parenting help for tweens that’s practical, calm, and usable tonight.
Tweens (roughly ages 9–12) are in a developmental stage where they’re practicing independence—so pushback, eye rolls, and “I KNOW!” can spike fast. The problem isn’t that you’re doing it wrong—the problem is that most parents don’t have a simple in-the-moment structure to stop escalation before it takes over the whole evening.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have:
- A 3-step reset to stop power struggles before they blow up
- A few one-sentence scripts that keep your authority and protect connection
- A simple When–Then + Timer structure that reduces arguing
- A 10-minute weekly “Reset Meeting” that lowers conflict all week (especially helpful for solo parents)
✅ Try the 3-step reset tonight with the next flashpoint (screens, homework, bedtime).
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📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: [email protected] Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com
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⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families
⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses)
The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.
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