253. Help With Teen Behavior Problems: What to Do When Your Teen Lies, Pushes Back, or Shuts Down
Is your teen lying, talking back, shutting down, or making choices that leave you feeling scared, frustrated, or unsure of what to do next?
If so, you are not alone.
Teen behavior problems can feel overwhelming, especially when you are trying so hard to stay connected while also setting limits and hold your ground.
In this episode, Tess talks about some of the most common teen behavior problems parents face right now and how to respond in a way that is calm, clear, and effective.
What looks like âbad behaviorâ on the surface is often a signal that something deeper is going on underneath.
Your teen may be dealing with stress, shame, anxiety, peer pressure, overwhelm, or a need for control, and that often comes out through behaviors like:
- lying
- disrespect
- sneaking and secrecy
- vaping, drinking, or substance use
- anger, explosive reactions, or shutting down
Tess walks you through how to look at these behaviors differently so you can respond with both connection and structure.
In this episode, youâll learn:
- why teen behavior problems are often communication, not just defiance
- the top 5 behavior issues parents are struggling with most
- what to say and do when your teen lies, pushes back, shuts down, or breaks trust
- how to stay grounded without becoming harsh or losing connection
- why your relationship with your teen still matters, even when behavior needs to be addressed directly
Youâll leave this episode feeling more empowered, more clear, and more confident in how to help your teen through difficult behavior without getting pulled into constant power struggles.
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And if you know another parent who is dealing with teen behavior problems right now, send this episode their way.
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