Why “Good Enough Parenting” Helps Single Parents of Tweens and Teens Thrive

If you’re a single parent of tweens or teens, you’ve probably asked yourself: Am I messing up my kids? Between screen time struggles, communication breakdowns, and the pressure to “get it all right,” it’s easy to fall into perfectionism. But the truth is, perfect parenting doesn’t exist—and it’s not even what your kids need most.
In this post (and the latest episode of The Single Parenting Reset Podcast), we explore the concept of Good Enough Parenting, first introduced by pediatrician and psychoanalyst D.W. Winnicott. This approach helps single parents let go of perfection and focus on connection.

What Is Good Enough Parenting?
Good Enough Parenting is about showing up consistently, not flawlessly. Instead of striving for perfection, you focus on being present, responsive, and intentional—especially when parenting tweens and teens.

3 Reasons Good Enough Parenting Helps Single Parents
Less Pressure, More Connection
When you release the need to be perfect, you create space for real, meaningful interactions.

Quality Over Quantity
Research shows that short, focused moments with your tween or teen matter more than hours of distracted time.

Opportunities in Mistakes
Parenting slip-ups don’t mean failure—they can actually become chances to repair and strengthen trust.

 Practical Ways to Apply Good Enough Parenting
Schedule regular family meetings to improve communication.

Set realistic screen time boundaries that work for your family.

Focus on small daily rituals (like shared meals or bedtime check-ins) to connect with your tween or teen.

Conclusion:
As a single parent, you don’t need to be perfect—you just need to be good enough. By focusing on connection over perfection, you’ll raise tweens and teens who feel seen, supported, and loved.

🎧 Want to hear more? Listen to the full episode of The Single Parenting Reset Podcast here.